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How to Practice Mindfulness Step by Step

Mindfulness is the gentle act of returning to the present moment, again and again. Below is a simple, step-by-step way to begin a practice that can take years to master but offers rewards from the very first breath.

Getting Started

  1. Find a quiet place where you can sit comfortably without being disturbed.
  2. Set aside a few minutes and gently close your eyes.
  3. Bring your awareness to the breath as it moves in the body.
  4. Identify inhalation as inhalation and exhalation as exhalation.
  5. Notice the rise and fall of the chest and the air at the nostrils.
  6. When the mind wanders, kindly return attention back to the breath.
  7. Slowly get in touch with the senses — sound, touch, temperature, scent.
  8. Stay present with whatever arises, without judgment or effort to change it.
  9. Pause before reacting to thoughts, feelings, or sensations.
  10. Notice where energy is being spent on past regrets or future worries.
  11. Let those thoughts pass like clouds across an open sky.
  12. Return gently to the breath whenever attention drifts.
  13. End the session by widening awareness to the whole body.
  14. Open the eyes slowly and take a moment before moving on.
  15. Practice regularly, with patience and curiosity.

Why It Matters

Mindfulness helps avoid wasting energy on past regrets and gently cultivates presence in everyday life. The breath is a faithful anchor whenever the mind begins to drift.

For a deeper look at the qualities that support a steady practice, see The 9 Attitudes of Mindfulness.